Therapy to Uncover the Patterns That Run Your Relationships
Specialised one-to-two or more work grounded in neuroscience and somatics. Built for people who want real, measurable change in their emotional patterns, relationships, and behaviour.
START WITH A RELATIONSHIP MAPPING SESSION20+ years experience • 2,500+ clinical hours • Trained and certified by Dr Gabor Maté • Somatic, behavioural, and trauma-informed therapist
Why This Approach Works
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Most of our relationships struggle because we listen from a place of subjective understanding, but we all speak different languages.
Somatic relationship therapy helps us understand our nervous system, our learned patterns, and the emotional imprints that shape our reactions. When we can see the pattern, we can change it.
This work is structured, direct, and supportive; designed to bring clarity without overwhelm and connection without chaos.
START WITH A RELATIONSHIP MAPPING SESSION
A Safe, Structured Path Through Healing
A simple framework for understanding the inter-connected world of relationships
Step 1
Relationship Mapping Session (90 minutes)
A structured assessment to map your communication strategies, conflict resolution tools, nervous system patterns, emotional triggers, and history. You leave with a clear plan.
Couples Breakthrough Session
The Couples Session is a single, 90 minute, in-depth therapy session designed to help couples explore their relationship dynamics, improve communication, and resolve challenges in a structured and supportive environment.
$307.00 USD
Your Relationship Mapping Session
90 minutes
Results:
- Nervous-system + behavioural mapping
- Identify emotional patterns + triggers
- Understand the “why” behind reactions
- Create a personal relationship plan based on your history
- Immediate first-step strategy
Therapy That Fits Your Life — Not the Other Way Around
The Science of Self method is designed to create deep change with simple, manageable steps.Â
You’ll feel supported, grounded, and capable — even on your busiest weeks.
START WITH A RELATIONSHIP MAPPING SESSIONBefore you decide — here’s what most people ask...
These are the most common questions people have before starting relationship therapy with me.
Is therapy painful?
How soon will I feel results?
What if one of us can’t attend a session?
Do you work with couples who’ve tried therapy before without success?
What if we don’t know what I want to work on?
Can I extend my package if I want more sessions?
Not Ready for Relationship Therapy Yet?
Get a free 20-minute training and experience the Science of Self method before you commit.
Free Training: 3 Science of Self Practices to Stop Repeating Old Patterns
In this 20-minute training, you’ll learn:
• What triggers your emotional patternsÂ
• How your nervous system decides your reactions before you doÂ
• A simple practice you can use today to feel calmer and more present Â
Instant access. No spam. Real tools you can use today.
Meet Your Expert Mentor: Murray Ash
With over 20 years experience in communication, therapy and writing, Murray blends scientific case study data with compassionate understanding and real-world wisdom to help people like you thrive. He's helped hundreds heal trauma, build better relationships, and live with purpose. Now, he's sharing his proven SOS method with you in one to one therapy sessions.
Ready to understand yourself more deeply and move your life forward with clarity?
Explore Personal Therapy
A simple, effective framework for understanding your internal world
EXPLORE SOMATIC THERAPYYou’re one decision away from lasting change
If you’ve read this far, you already know something needs to shift.
You don’t have to keep repeating the same patterns alone.
Choose the path that feels right for you:
Option 1 — Begin Your ProgrammeÂ
Start the 4-week journey and experience steady, guided change.
Option 2 — Start SmallÂ
Begin with a single relationship mapping session and get a personalised clarity plan.
This is the moment you choose the next version of your life.
START WITH A RELATIONSHIP MAPPING SESSION